Thursday, August 03, 2006

Fwd: Prosperity Tips--Using Money As A Spiritual Discipline

Message from Joan

I think that many people are feeling the energetic effects of
the chaos that now prevails on the planet. There are times,
when it seems trivial to focus on individual problems and money
worries when people are fighting for their lives in so many
parts of the world.

Because we live in a dualistic reality, good and bad always
coexist. It might seem to those of us who yearn for peace and
security that the bad is overcoming the good and that peace is
a far-off dream.

But as the chaos intensifies, and I believe it will, and it
seems like the ego drives of our leaders are leading us into
more and more danger, each of us has the choice to find a place
of peace within ourselves and to stay focused on our individual
purpose and how we can grow and prosper together.

The chaos can only diminish if a majority of the people on our
planet are willing to let go of fear, anger, intolerance, and
need for retribution. We are the bearers of peace if we can let
go of our ego needs and selfish cravings, because those are
what lies at the base of the current chaos.

The good side of the chaos is that it allows for the breaking
up of old patterns and the establishing of a new way of living.
All we need to do is hold tight and learn to love ourselves and
those who come into our lives.

The message was clear oh so many years ago and it still applies
today--love is the healer.

Check out the Love Yourself Exercises at
http://prosperityplace.com/articles/love_urself.html

Joan
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Article:
Using Money As a Spiritual Practice

Does the idea of using money as a spiritual practice seem odd
to you? It probably does if you hold the belief that it isn't
spiritual to be concerned about money. Or perhaps you believe
that money, or the desire for money, is the root of all evil.

The fact is that money is a very powerful force that we have
to deal with on a daily basis. How we deal with it can be the
cornerstone of a deep spiritual practice.

Money, by itself, has no energy or meaning. It is just pieces
of paper or metal coins. But money is never used by itself. It
has to pass between two people or entities. When it does, it
takes on a lot of energy and meaning.

>>What Qualifies as a Spiritual Practice.
Before we continue, I'd like to define what I think qualifies
as a spiritual practice.

For me, a spiritual practice is an activity or state of being
that allows me to travel into deeper dimensions of myself and
understand who or what I am. A spiritual practice helps me
gain a deeper understanding of the nature of reality and what
my place is in the total scheme of things.

Meditation is a traditional spiritual practice, as are prayer,
fasting, quiet retreats, silence, giving service to others,
chanting, various forms of yoga, etc. You might qualify these
as internal activities.

Money and activities surrounding money, on the other hand, are
usually considered an external force. We talk about worldly
goods and activities as opposed to spiritual values when we
think about money. Except when we talk about charity and
giving money away. Then dealing with money takes on a
spiritual quality.

>>Money on Your Mind
Most people I talk to think about money often and have deep
feelings that the thought of money generates. People plan,
worry, fret, panic and scheme about money. They long for, pray
for, and wish for money. Money is often seen as the solution
to
a wide variety of problems and a ticket to freedom.

If you think a lot about money and have strong money feelings,
then why not take your money thoughts and feelings and let
them work for you in a positive way that will lead you on a
path to self-knowledge and inner development.

You can use money and how you deal with it to help you
understand the laws of creation and to help you become a
co-creator with the Universal Force.

Here are some suggestions for using money as a spiritual
practice.

1. Pay attention to your money feelings and thoughts.
Because money is a symbol of energy passing between two
people, it is a symbol of the energy of relationship. How you
deal with money is how you deal with your relationship with
yourself and others. Examining your money feelings and seeing
how they represent your relationship with yourself can be
quite revealing.

Whenever you use money or deal with finances become aware of
your thoughts and feelings. Pay attention to what is going on
inside of you and don't push the thoughts and feelings away.
If there is discomfort, stay with the feeling and ask yourself
what you are feeling about yourself.

2. Tune into a greater reality via market and financial
indicators.
Stock market fluctuations and other financial indicators are a
way of tuning into the emotions of the population of a country
and even the world. The ups and downs of the market are a
reflection of the emotional state of a country. Learn about
the environment in which you function by tuning into the
markets.

If you involve yourself in the stock market, you can begin to
understand yourself as a member of a larger reality. Your
actions and emotions can affect the whole, just as each of the
other parts of the whole can affect you.

Use the markets to tune into the flow of money energy on the
planet. You will begin to understand, on a deep level, the
creative force that money provides.

3. Use money as a creative force.
No matter how much, or how little, money you have, you can put
it to good use both for yourself and others. By using money
consciously and with great awareness and always looking for
direction from your inner guidance -- whatever form that
takes -- you can use money creatively. If you do use it
consciously and with awareness, that in itself, is part of a
spiritual practice.

4. Give money away.
Giving money away provides many opportunities for spiritual
growth. Sharing what you have with others allows you to
examine your values, your beliefs about what is possible and
your levels of faith. It will help you understand how you set
boundaries and how you choose to contribute to the community
of which you are a part.

5. Use money to measure how you value yourself.
When you truly love, accept, appreciate, acknowledge and value
yourself, when you are willing to take care of yourself and
support yourself on every level, when you love yourself enough
to forgive others and let go of old hurts, then you will have
a free flow of money and the sense of freedom it can bring.

For specific instructions that will help you follow up on
all of these suggestions, read Build Your Money Muscles:
Nine Simple Exercises for Improving Your Relationship with
Money.
http://ProsperityPlace.com/bymm/

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

MUTIARA-MUTIARA KEBIJAKSANAAN

[Sebuah komentar informal pada suatu retreat di tahun 1992, New
York, oleh Shifu Sheng-yen]

Kita musti memiliki sikap batin yang ceria terhadap hidup ini dan
dalam berpraktik meditasi.
Hindari kondisi-kondisi ekstrim ; suka-cita (kebahagiaan) yang
meluap-luap, ataupun depresi/kesedihan yang mendalam.

Jika anda melekat pada kegembiraan yang berlebihan hal itu ibarat
karpet tempat Anda berdiri mendadak disentakkan, Anda tentu akan
menderita. Sebaliknya jika Anda gampang sedih atau depresi, itu
berarti malah anda memang sudah mengalami penderitaan itu sendiri.

Pada jaman dahulu, ada seorang pejabat di masa dinasti Ch'ing yang
juga seorang praktisi Zen. Karena suatu hal, ia akan dihukum mati
dan sedang menunggu waktu eksekusi. Di penjara mereka menyuguhinya
santapan akhir berupa sayur buncis-kacang dilengkapi dengan arak
hangat. Tepat di saat sebelum eksekusi dilaksanakan para penjaga
bertanya, apakah ia punya pesan-pesan terakhir.- "Oh, iya! jawabnya,
Tolong sampaikan saja ke anak laki-lakiku bahwa sayur buncis-
kacangnya sangatlah pas. Bahkan enaak sekali—bagaikan hidangan
mewah"

Orang di kisah ini memiliki sikap-batin yang sangat bagus terhadap
hidup. Ia memilih untuk selalu sadar dan ceria meski hingga akhir
hayatnya…
Amatlah baik untuk selalu riang, memiliki sikap yang jernih dan
tenang dalam menghadapi berbagai situasi dalam hidup.

Apakah kaki sakit karena duduk-bermeditasi? Bergembiralah, karena
itu berarti paling tidak Anda masih punya kaki. Apakah stress,
terperangkap dalam keruwetan masalah rumah-tangga? Gembiralah. Itu
artinya Anda masih hidup!
Dengan batin yang rileks dan stabil, maka Anda akan mampu menangani
situasi apapun dengan jernih dan obyektif. Bahkan Anda bisa
menghadapi kematian dengan tabah.

Mungkin Anda malah berpendapat bahwa sungguh konyol sekali untuk
bersikap ceria dalam menghadapi ajal? Yaaa.., itu toh pilihan Anda
sendiri. Anda boleh saja memilih ceria atau tidak.
Namun yang jelas: kalau Anda tak mau memilih untuk bersikap ceria
sebelum ajal tiba, Anda bakal tak punya lagi kesempatan melakukan
setelah-nya (!) J.

Zen

Sunday, January 08, 2006

persistance

"Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not;
nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will
not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world
is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are
omnipotent. The slogan "press on" has solved and always will solve the
problems of the human race"
Calvin Coolidge.

Orang Madura di Bali


Orang Madura di Bali

Jakarta, KCM
Bukan karena takut bom meledak lagi di Bali, saya memilih bersih-bersih
rumah saat tahun baru. Justru saat itulah saya mengalami musibah. Hari
Minggu, 1 Januari lalu, saya menglami keseleo pinggang saat berusaha
menggeser sebuah kasur pegas cadangan yang seperti mau jatuh dari rak
penyimpanannya. Terpaksa pekerjaan bersih-bersih rumah dihentikan. Mau
pergi ke fisioterapi sudah pasti tidak ada yang buka. Saya terdiam pasrah
menahan rasa nyeri pada pinggang kanan saya.
Sebetulnya saya kurang suka dipijat. Tapi karena rasa nyeri yang tidak
kunjung menghilang meskipun sudah diolesi balsam panas, saya akhirnya
menelepon Ibu saya minta tolong dipanggilkan tukang pijat yang biasa
memijat keponakan saya.
Dua jam kemudian, Bu Nan, begitu ibu tukang pijat ini biasa dipanggil,
sudah tiba di rumah saya. Saya menceritakan asal-muasal saya mendapatkan
rasa nyeri di pinggang saya ini.
"Sampeyan ini Mbak! Wong, sudah tahu kasur berat kok digeser sendiri. Ya
begini ini jadinya," kata Bu Nan mengomeli saya dengan logat Maduranya yang
kental.
Sebetulnya saya tidak terlalu mengenal Bu Nan. Keponakan saya yang
memang doyan dipijat, yang sering menceritakan sosok Bu Nan ini. Yang
pijatannya mantap lah, yang orangnya kecil lah, yang kulitnya gosong lah.
Baru hari itu saya bertemu langsung dengannya.
Memang benar, pijatannya mantap. Bahasa lainnya, sakit! He…he…he..,
mungkin karena saya tidak sering dipijat ya, jadi tidak tahan. Keponakan
saya kalau tahu pasti tertawa habis melihat saya meringis-ringis keluar
airmata waktu sedang dipijat. Tapi berangsur-angsur rasa nyeri yang saya
rasakan di pinggang mulai berkurang. Saya mulai bisa menikmati ’kemantapan’
pijatan Bu Nan yang sesungguhnya. Enak juga!
"Sampeyan kalau perlu pijatan, telpon aku saja Mbak! Tadi itu waktu Ibu
sampeyan telpon, anakku yang terima telponnya. Tapi jangan khawatir, pasti
disampaikan kok," katanya setengah berpromosi.
"Berapa anaknya, Bu Nan?" aku menanyainya sesudah merasa lebih nyaman.
"Anakku ada dua Mbak. Dua-duanya laki. Sudah rabi (menikah) semua.
Putu-ku (cucu) sudah ada empat."
"Hah? Bu Nan sudah punya cucu? Memang Bu Nan umur berapa?" Aku bertanya
keheranan, sebab kalau kulihat, Bu Nan ini belum terlalu tua.
"Umurku 41, Mbak. Tapi umur tiga belas aku sudah dinikahkan. Umur lima
belas tahun aku wes punya anak. Jaman dulu ya gitu itu Mbak, apalagi di
Madura."
"Tiga belas tahun, Bu Nan?" aku menggeleng-geleng tidak percaya.
"Iyo, Mbak. Wong aku ini ngerawat bayi masih ndak bisa kok. Ibuku yang
ngurusi anak ku itu! Habis punya anak yang kedua itu aku langsung minta
steril."
Aku keheranan mendengar pernyataannya," Kenapa kok minta disteril, Bu Nan?"
"Aku ini orang susah Mbak, aku ndak mau anakku jadi orang susah juga.
Dua saja sudah cukup, aku sama bojo-ku mampunya ngerawat segitu. Sampeyan
lihat ndak di tivi-tivi itu! Wes ndak punya, tapi kok manak (punya anak)
terus. Anaknya kan jadi ndak terurus. Mau dikasih makan apa? Ndak ngerti aku!"
Aku semakin takjub, "Anak-anaknya Bu Nan kerja di mana?" Aku tidak bisa
menyembunyikan rasa ingin tahuku.
"Anakku yang besar jadi penjahit, punya kios kecil di pasar. Yang
kecilan buka usaha servis barang elektronik, tivi-tivi, radio gitu Mbak.
Aku sudah seneng, mereka sudah bisa ngidupi keluarga mereka sendiri. Nek
aku sendiri, sekarang lagi ngumpul-no duit buat uang muka, mau nyicil BTN
daripada aku ngontrak terus, Mbak! Bayar kontrakan sama aja dengan bayar
cicilan, kan bagus aku nyicil to Mbak!" Ia berkata penuh semangat. Aku
ternganga mendengarkan cerita Bu Nan, pikirannya maju sekali.
"Tapi jaman sekarang susah Mbak. Apa-apa mahal, mana ada bom lagi, di
mana itu? Sulawesi sana ya Mbak? Orang seng ngebom-ngebom iku yo
jelas-jelas salah! Mana ada uwong mateni uwong (orang membunuh orang) bisa
masuk surga? Jadi jangan ngomong orang Jawa, orang Bali, orang Islam,
Kristen, Hindu, pokoke kalau sudah membunuh ya berdosa," ia berceloteh
sambil tetap memijat aku.
Dalam hati aku berpikir sendiri. Kalau saja mayoritas rakyat negeriku
ini memiliki pikiran maju seperti Bu Nan, meskipun aku yakin ia tidak
mengenyam bangku pendidikan yang tinggi, tentunya kesejahteraan makin dekat
menjadi kenyataan.
Dari jendela kamar tidurku, aku melihat sosok Bu Nan mengayuh sepedanya
keluar dari halaman rumahku. Mudah-mudahan uang muka untuk mencicil BTN
bisa cepat dikumpulkannya.
(Mira, ibu rumah tangga, tinggal di Bali)
http://www.kompas.com/olahraga/news/0601/05/140540.htm

Saturday, January 07, 2006

What you can do with internet pls forward

To komunitasinternetpalu@yahoogroups.com
pls forward:
what you can do with internet:
1. belajar inggris :)
2. cari duit
3. cari pasangan ;p
4. cari musuh :( (not recomended)
5. sharing
apa lagi ya?
silahkan pakar2 tambahin dong. lalu forward ketemen2 biar difolow up dan
pada penasaran join KIP :)

viva KIP

Friday, January 06, 2006

Open 2006 with enthusiasm and love :)

I decided to open new blogspot. hope this will bring inspiration to other
that read this.

Minggu ini 2 temen baik yg lama udah gak pernah kontak tiba2 email dan sms.
Yang 1 ilang 5 tahun yg lalu, yg satu ilang 6 thn lebih. Yg satu udah jauh
sekali di ausie. yg satu deket sekali digorontalo :)

Setelah setahun perjalanan menjalankan bisnis komputer. Sempet jatuh sampe
mau kukut. Lalu sebulan lalu kehilangan sebuah laptop pesanan orang. Begitu
banyak pengalaman yg sangat membuat ingin down. Perjuangan untuk mencari
duit, membangun bisnis, mencari profit.

Minggu belakangan ini baru sadar, bahwa money not everything.
So what yg paling penting gitu lho. ada. menurut saya paling penting adalah
relation dan peace of mind. kok bisa bilang gitu.
Iya, setahun perjuangan untuk mencari duit telah meninggalkan banyak hal yg
membekas. Dimana dalam usaha mencari duit kadang melupakan hal2 yg paling
prinsipil yg saya sebut diatas.

Minggu lalu bom meledak dipalu. Menyadarkan juga bahwa our time in this
world is limited. maut bisa menjemput kapan saja dan dimana saja. so i
decided to search for what i realy want and what to do so i make fullfill
of my life.

hope this blog will continue ;p
to be continue ...

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